Different Archetypes in Trauma Propagation

The propagation of trauma across generations is governed by the internal state of the intermediary node (the parent), whose capacity for emotional processing and conscious choice determines whether trauma is attenuated, transmitted, or amplified.

1. The Amplifier:
   • They were traumatized, maybe subtly or overtly.
   • They didn’t process it.
   • Because of low emotional capacity, weak ego strength, or narcissistic tendencies, they inflict more trauma than they received, either through control, neglect, violence, manipulation, or disconnection.
   • Often justify their behavior (“My parents hit me and I turned out fine”).

2. The Transmitter (neutral):
   • They pass on trauma at roughly the same intensity or pattern they received.
   • They may be unconscious, passive, or confused.
   • May have some empathy, but haven’t done the healing work.

3. The Absorber / Breaker:
   • They receive trauma but do the inner work to stop the chain.
   • Often empaths, highly sensitive or intuitive people.
   • They suffer deeply—sometimes more than those who act out.
   • They turn the pain inward (e.g. depression, self-hate, anxiety) rather than outward (e.g. violence, abuse).
   • But over time, with reflection and healing, they raise children in far healthier ways—even if imperfectly.

Yes, it’s very possible—and even documented—that people can amplify trauma from one generation to the next. Possible reasons include:

• Low resilience or poor self-regulation.

• Personality traits like narcissism, entitlement, or emotional immaturity.

• Cultural legitimization of abusive behaviors (“tough love” ideologies).

• Shame deflection: Instead of feeling their own shame, they project it onto others (especially vulnerable children).

Meanwhile, the people who carry trauma but don’t pass it on often:

• Have greater emotional intelligence or compassion.

• Are more self-aware, sometimes painfully so.

• Choose to break the system, even at personal cost.